Three words... look at you!

#12 - 12.06.20

Brother -

Today's note is about your support network. People who believe in you, so that you believe in yourself. 

Our parents, although not the most objective, are our number 1 fans. It's a constant wave of positive reinforcement, even on the smallest of items. My old roommate from San Francisco once commented that if he had our parent's unwavering support - he could go to Mars. 

Recently, I video chatted with our parents while on vacation with friends. They could overhear Dad asking me, "Wow! How are you holding the phone so steady?!" I proceeded to show him my trick of resting my wrist on my knee, which was propped up on the couch. His response, 

"Genius! Three words - look at you!"

We're lucky to have received tremendous support from them over the years. It's played a large role in our self-assurance. Building a support network, though, is more than just hanging around Mom and Dad. It's about who you spend time with. This could be your partner, friends, colleagues, a manager, or a coach. 

It's about finding people that you trust. Who has a genuine interest in your growth and want you to succeed. People with who you reciprocate this feeling, where you tell each other in times of need - "You got this!". 

We like to be around positive and encouraging people. The energy is contagious. Make sure you also reflect this same energy onto others - it's a two-way street.

Why is all this important? Simple. So we can bring out the best in each other. When should we support each other? Frequently. But it's essential to over-index during difficult life or work circumstances.

Once my coach asked me during a time of personal weakness, "Would you bet on Nate? Because I would bet on Nate any day of the week". As I heard this, my chest started to lift into a powerful pose, and my self-confidence increased immediately.

Your support network is your biggest asset. Invest in it.

Let me leave you with a quote and a question.

"Intentions don't matter. Actions do."

-Naval

Who needs your support right now? 

Enjoy the dance,

Nate